If I am happy I can bring a change in the situation which may be sad.whatever decision we need to take-day-to-day decisions,finance,relationships,career or any other decisions,we just need to sit in silence and think keeping just one criteria in mind that -our decision should be a stepping stone to me becoming stronger spiritually and mentally and then automatically other persons will be influenced positively by me once I become strong.I need not to be loving .I just need to be conflict free. with that my soul power increases. None of the things that keep happening throughout the day will matter than my soul power.